Being natural empaths with extraverted feeling, INFJs are particularly at risk for falling into unhealthy codependent types of behaviors.
How many times have you dropped everything to help someone? Then when you need help its…..crickets chirping. Or you hold your tongue and let things go until the final nail in the coffin results in your sassy INFJ doorslam? Or you say yes to something you really don’t want to, so you don’t have to feel guilty?